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Keep Writing: Rest in Peace, Anita Crane

Many years ago through an unusual set of circumstances and a mutual friend I was introduced to a woman who, at the time, was an editor at Human Life International’s Celebrate Life Magazine. She spoke with me by phone and made what I thought was an odd request.

“I want you to write a 3,000 word essay on the topic [we had just been discussing].”

Never having written anything professionally, I hesitated. And yet, this woman was determined to get an article out of me.

A month later, with almost no revisions from her, the article ran as the cover story that month. It may not have been the biggest of deals nor was it in the largest circulation, but it was my work with my name and I was humbled and proud at the same time.

And I was thankful to this woman for seeing something in me and pressing me to write.

Flash forward a few years. I had begun writing my blog. I ran into my friend at a college alumni event. Over a few cigarettes and glasses of wine we discussed all manner of things literary.

“You haven’t written in a while,” she said to me.

I told her I didn’t know if anyone was reading my work and asked her what the point was.

“Keep writing,” she said to me. “Even if only one person reads it, you have a gift and God expects you to use it.”

Last night I was saddened to learn of the passing of my friend, Anita Crane.

In your charity, please offer many prayers and sacrifices for the repose of her soul. If any priests read this and would like to offer a requiem for her soul, please email me and I will get a stipend to you.

And if even only one person reads this, I will consider my job done.

Heart of Jesus, pierced with love for sinful man, have mercy on us!

13th Station, Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, Tyler, TX

The Dead

I am currently traveling. My family and I arrived in the Fatherland yesterday (New Jersey) for the wedding of one of my nieces. It was All Saints Day. The rest of the gang made it to the early Mass at home before our flight. Yours truly still had some packing to do and so I went to a sung Mass at the ICK oratory I usually attend when I am home. It was, as it always is, magnificent. Laudetur Jesus Christus!

Which brings us to today. November 2nd. All Souls Day.

As I am “back home” for the next few days, I will have the opportunity not only to attend Masses for the dead but to visit the old family plot at the cemetery.

There isn’t much more I can add to this other than the exhortation to pray always for the souls in purgatory. In God’s infinite Mercy you and I may be among them one day.

Offer prayers, sufferings, and good works for the souls of the faithful departed this month and always.

Here is a link to a set of daily prayers for the dead that I use. But even the simply “Eternal rest grant unto them” prayer we were all taught growing up is perfectly acceptable. Make the sign of the cross when you pass a cemetery. Pray for them!

Crucifixion Window, St. Mary’s, Fort Worth, TX

May She Rest in Peace

Friends, I was traveling tonight. Rather than listen to the State of a Union that no longer exists, I decided to pray my rosary. One of my intentions was for a relatively young woman. She was a graduate of the same college my wife and I attended (though several years after us). She had let it be known just a couple of days ago that she was in her final time on earth, suffering the ravages of an aggressive cancer.

I landed to find out that she had gone to her judgment tonight.

Please keep her (MH) in your prayers.

Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and May perpetual light shine upon her.

Mary, Queen of Heaven and earth, pray for us!